ama lux et veritas

we know things.

My teardrops don’t fall like rain. They blow away, swimming through the wind like wishes made on dandelion fluff. They float away, following their own pathway, pretending they came from their own unique spark in the universe.

Mine choose to land on your words.

They pour down my cheeks, splashing paper, smearing graphite.
I was laughing ten minutes ago but my throat is buttoned shut now.

You were supposed to be okay,
and I know.

I know you’re not.  I know it’s not.

It’s okay to not be okay.  I know that, too.best_childrens_books_9

I know things.  I’ve seen things.

I don’t know what you’re going through, though.  I’ve held troubles, but they weren’t shaped like yours.  I’ve lost, but none of my missing pieces would have filled your gaps.

I know some things, not all things.

I know I want to be here for you.  I want to ease what I can.  I want to give you the words I don’t have, and the hugs I know you can’t even feel right now.  I want, I want, I want…

Nothing I want matters right now, and it’s important for you to know that.  It’s important for you to know that it’s okay to not be okay.  It’s important for you to remember that you know things.

You’ve seen things.

You will survive this.  All the things that aren’t okay will one day be okay again, and that’ll be okay, too.

It’s okay to be okay.  It’s okay to be not okay.

frog_and_toadI’ll be here either way, and you can rest with me.  You can send me your words and I will read them.  I will live them.  I will see them.  You can’t scare me.

I’ve seen things. I know things.

I survive things.

And even though it may not feel like it right now…
So do you.


NanoPoblano, NaBloPoMo


I hurt when you hurt.  The worst part of prison was not being out here when you were suffering.  I got word, through the grapevine, of the divorces and death, the pitfalls and stumbles, the depressions and diagnoses, and I wanted to be here.  I knew there were dozens of things I didn’t hear anything about at all.


I expected to have hard days, but I didn’t realize how painful it would be to know you were having hard days when I was too far away to help.  I kept reminding myself it didn’t matter what I wanted, and how — for most of you– I couldn’t do anything anyway.

Now that I’m out, I still hurt when you hurt, and I still can’t do much more than be here and want good things for you, but I am so very thankful for the freedom that grants me the right to do that in real time.   I am thankful for the knowing, always.  I am thankful to be here, even if it’s just to hope that you know I am here for you– waiting confidently for the day that everything is absolutely okay for you again.

And it will be.
I know things.

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One of the these days…

[Artwork from Frog and Toad books by Arnold Lobel.]


    1. If people weren’t so awesome, I might not care at all. 🙂

      Speaking of awesome people, you should know I wrote down 3 good things I want to happen for you. I learned about a magic tree near my work today, I’m going to tuck it in there and see what happens. I’m thinking it’s gonna be amazing.

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        1. It’s actually squirrel magic, says the girl who goes to school next door. :/ I’ve never played with squirrel magic before, so we’ll see. She says the tree makes wishes come true.

          As to full moons, you’ll get one tomorrow. Stars and magic and love, well, that’s just stuff that echoes are made of. You have that stuff all the time.

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  1. You and EchoEcho have harnessed all the awesome conversation here. I’m might move on with the phrase ‘you are loved’. You’re forever thinking of others, like all and EVERYONE.
    Love and hugs and Thud xx

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    1. Of course. We’re all on the same team… And everyone&others has been mighty kind to me in my time of not okayness. Fair’s fair. :). Thanks for reading, Kate. And for being awesome enough to get the coolness of squirrel magic. 🙂

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      1. We’d be out in the cold, wondering why there were so many things that weren’t how we knew they were supposed to be, that’s where. We’d be wondering why the knowing wasn’t known. O_o

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  2. Oh yeah, you know things Ra. You know what pain is on a very intimate basis. More importantly, you know what love is because love shines from you and your blog posts. All of us who care about you would grab a polishing cloth and polish your blog until it shines like a crystal mountain hit by the first rays of the morning sun if we could. But that would probably take shine off it because you are the one who makes it shine.
    Rawr, Thud!

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