I met Dave (artist name: Grayson Queen) when I was 20 years old.  We were happily together (with our two cats, Perdita & Flash) until he died of kidney failure in May of 2015.  I was 31 years old and incarcerated.  He was my best friend, business partner, blog-buddy, and husband.  I’m still figuring it all out, and I’m documenting the process when I can.  Included here are also posts I wrote about him when he was still very much alive, and the Ra-Son projects we worked on together.  It’s all jumbled.  I guess jumbled is how I widow.